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Divided Lives: Dreams of a Mother and Daughter Lyndall Gordon

Divided Lives: Dreams of a Mother and Daughter

Lyndall Gordon

Published
ISBN : 9781844088898
Hardcover
336 pages
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`As a child, Im to be my mothers sister because she wants one so. My part is to be there if shes ill. At four years old, its a privilege to have this responsibility instead of trotting off to nursery school like other children.So begins theMore`As a child, Im to be my mothers sister because she wants one so. My part is to be there if shes ill. At four years old, its a privilege to have this responsibility instead of trotting off to nursery school like other children.So begins the renowned and award-wining biographers book about her own life - particularly in relationship to her mother - an extraordinary and intensely realised tale of loyalty and division- breakdown and recovery- migration and home.Lyndall Gordon was born in 1941 in Cape Town, a place from which `a ship takes fourteen days to reach anywhere that matters. Born to a mother whose mysterious illness confined her for years to life indoors, Lyndall was her secret sharer, a child who grew to know life through books, story-telling and her mothers own writings. It was an exciting, precious world, pure and rich in dreams and imagination - untainted by the demands of reality.But a daughter grows up.Despite her own inability to leave home for long, Lyndalls mother believed in migration, a belief that became almost a necessity once the horrors of apartheid gripped their country. Lyndall loves the rocks, the sea, the light of Cape Town, but, struggling to achieve a life approved by her mother, she tries and makes a failure of living in Israel and then, back once again in her beloved South Africa she marries and moves with her husband to New York.Its in America in 1968 when suddenly Lyndall realises she cannot be, and does not want to be, the woman, the daughter and the mother her mother wants her to be.This is a wonderfully layered memoir about the expectations of love and duty between mother and daughter. The particular time and place, the people and the situation are Lyndalls, but the division between generations, the pain and the joy of being a daughter are everywomans.